I'm Still With You Paperback – June 27, 2008

I would and have recommended this book for anyone who is grieving. It is an easy read and broken up into three parts. Carole's early life and how she came to become a medium which let's us know that truly we all have it inside of us whether we have thought about it or not. The second or bulk of the book is the accounts of her readings for those in grief desperately wanting to reconnect with their loved ones. As I read I was merely calmed and could almost here her voice and lovingness to bring peace to those in sorrow. She brings so much comfort to those grieving by contacting their loved ones and letting them know that life and love and their personality does not end with the illusion of death but their consciousness continues through spirit. As she states in her book "The most fundamental tool in healing grief is the awareness of the continuity of life after death". Her gentle loving personality comes across as you read which made it that much more meaningful to me. The end of the book Carole talks about ADC's (after death communication) that a lot of people receive without ever talking to a medium and then she follows up with tools for healing grief. In my opinion this book has everything one needs to at least start their process of healing by giving them hope that are loved ones are still around us and love us...death is not the end!! Sheila Jenkins

It was comforting reading stories of others who connected with the spirits of their loved ones who have passed.

This book gives fantastic explanations of the afterlife, and how to look for signs as well as what to do and not to do to as far as you moving through your grief. It goes on to explain that any act of holding on to anger, bitterness and regret keeps departed loved ones from moving on as well, something l was not aware of. To me it was very uplifting, l am no longer afraid of death, although not looking forward to either, however now after reading this book, l know there is nothing to fear. I also know that my loved ones have never left me and l can call upon them at any time, talk to them and they will hear me. This book truly allowed me to understand what and whom are waiting for me on the other side.

I am still enjoying this very comforting book. It reinforces the concept that life is only changed and not ended by death. My faith helped me to come to this conclusion early in my grief journey but this book shares many stories of spirit communication and continued to calm my sorrow. We lost a 16 year old son to suicide four and a half years ago. So I am always looking for a new and comforting story. I found it in this one.

I read books by several authors when my Dad passed away four years ago but when my son passed four months ago I was looking for something that would confirm that he is still with me. I found that confirmation in Carole's book. The stories in the book that detail readings with other sitters struck a chord and Carole's explanation of the spirit world answers many questions. This led to a phone reading with Carole that was amazing. My Dad and son (and others) came through and the details that she provided were absolutely from them. These were not generic observations that could apply to most anyone and there is no way that Carole could have guessed what came through. My sister also had a reading where my Dad and son came through with messages for me. The hope and peace that I have as a result of Carole's ability is priceless. I highly recommend reading Carole's book and contacting Carole for a reading if you wish to connect with a loved one. Carole is easy to talk to and she warmly shares her gift with those of us in grief.

After my son was killed in a bike accident last Easter, the only thing that seemed to help me to move on was to read books about what lies on the other side of death. I think I read 30 books before I found "I'm Still With You." They were all helpful, but I may not have read so many if I had found this one first. Carole Obley shares many, many stories of readings she has done for those who've lost loved ones. They all assure us that death is a transition, and that our loved ones continue to live in another dimension. The final chapter, "Letting Go and Moving On: Tools for Healing Grief" could be expanded into a book by itself. This is the best description and explanation of what my family and I have endured since my son died. Despite all the well-meaning ministrations from friends and family, reading this chapter was the first time I felt that someone really understood what I was going through. Ms. Obley has a section in this chapter titled "What can I do to feel better?" and I think other readers will actually find some relief in these suggestions. Even a grieving person who is uncomfortable with the idea of after-death communication will find comfort in that last chapter. For the rest of us, who want to know that life does continue, this book is like a friend to walk with, a friend to lean on.